"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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should i hang out with this girl that has a dude?

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well ii started talking to this girl a few days ago over the phone and today i found out that she started a relationship yesterday. supposedly she wouldnt have gotten in it if she knew that i liked her and wanted to take her out. she said we could still hang out though as friends so i asked her if she would let anything happen if we did and she said no but seemed unsure.

should i hang out with her? or is this a bad idea and i should just wait it out untll they break up? i need your opinions on this
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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If shes showing signs then dont wait. Next week she might be feelin some other dude.
 
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Chaotixxx said:
If shes showing signs then dont wait. Next week she might be feelin some other dude.
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ditto

Go hang out with her, have fun, but if you do want a chance with her in the future, don't let yourself get stuck in the friend zone.

The biggest thing you gotta watch yourself for is not to get stuck on her. She's off dating someone else, so you should be looking elsewhere too. If you find yourself getting oneitis for a girl that's dating a different dude, cut back on her or just get the hell out.

It's a careful balance, but it can have it's benefits.
 
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