“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Should I go tonight ... ?

TheGambino

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It's about a HB7 (superfun) rock chick, already made a thread about her earlier. Yeah, this is not good.

Story short:

Met her a month ago randomly in a bar. Been making out, playing the ultimate DJ. Make out, touchy, fun. I tell her I have to leave, she beggs me to stay.

Talk to her mom (at the bar), her sisters like me and want me to stay too.

She tells me she doesnt want ONS anymore and all that crap and wants a bf duduu. (I never listen to words anyway, only action counts)

My mission: F8cking her.

Give her my number, she never texts.

I run into her sister, she gives me the OP girls number (hb7blonderockchick).

Reach out, fun convo she says she's busy, basically a soft rejection.

I next her.

I randomly run intoo her again that same bar last week, repeating. We make out hard, have fun hard, dance all night, we are drunk, all over eachother. She's on my lap, following me around in the bar. Super fun.

Shes drunk:
She tells me the same sh1eit again.
I don't want ONS anymore, I want a steady bf and babies. (testing or a game too make guys attached or to see how needy they are) I know she does or did this too more guys.
She also tells me that she thinks im super attractive to her.


Then (im drunk) I act a bit needy towards her by jumping on her cycle to join her home. She tells me she and her sisters sleep at her mom. Her sister tells her just take him with us. She declines lmao. I bail.

The next day I text her to have food together and she says shes busy.

I delete her number.

Saturdaynight walking drunk downtown.

I see her walking ALONE but dont approach.

I text her ''Hey lets have drinks im downtown''

She never replies.

I run intoo her in a bar again randomly later that night (with her sisters) she talks to me with her sister but isnt so enthusiastic and happy to see me, I bail and delete her number directly.

Now my question.

She ran intoo my buddy (I always go with to that bar at thursday) and she says this ''Hey are you guys coming tommorow again?'' He was with a friend. I dont know if she mentions me or that guy. She doesnt mean my buddy though.

Obviousley I got plates, obviousley I should next... but she kisses better then all my plates, dances better, I never f8cked a real rock rebel chick, shes blonde, she has a perfect A$$, she is fun to be around. I feel in her passion and kiss that shes a monster in bed.

Should I go tonight or skipp all of this? Thats all I want to know.

If i do go there I know I should greet her then ignore her and wait her out.

Obviousley I want to f8auck her but Idk what's stopping her from going out with me or taking me home.

What's my best bet? (If I do go she knows im going there to see her, she knows the bar is not my type of bar and she knows that I know shes there)

I give you guys this information because neediness kills attraction, rule number 1.
 
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Remember when I gave you the speech about either being the financial advisor or the homeless bum?

The thought that you are starting yet another thread about this chick is disturbing dude. Why would you do anything out of your way for her when she obviously isnt returning the favor?

If you see her out, say "hi" and ignore her. Just like you would any other chick that is blowing you off.

Red flags for her-

She was at the bar with her mom
She is flakey
She probably makes out with dudes all the time but then the guy at the top of the list bangs her every night

Red flags for you-

You deleted her number and then texted her again
She gets a rise out of you and your head spins every time she comes up around you
You have to stop biting on crumbs

Now pull it together and start gaming other chicks that dont make it tough!
 

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If it's your regular Thursday spot...GO.

Why are you up in your head about it? Did she mark it as her territory & not yours? You are being simple here. A man goes where he goes & does what he does.

If she's there, fine, be friendly (if she approaches & you MUST let HER approach IMO), if she doesn't approach and you see her, acknowledge her in a cool way (raise a glass/wink/blow her a kiss - whatever is congruent with TheGambino style), and enjoy your night as you normally would.

You've made your interest known. Now let her see your nonchalance. No more texting her. She needs to come to you at this point.

But don't avoid your usual spot. That's silliness.
 

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it all depends what you would like from her short term and long term.

Do you see a relationship coming out of this?

I say go.

if she is there say hello but dont give her the attention. talk to other chicks a the bar.

an i she comes up to you during the night and asks you "why havent you been paying attention to me?" respond accordingly.
 

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Remember when I gave you the speech about either being the financial advisor or the homeless bum?

The thought that you are starting yet another thread about this chick is disturbing dude. Why would you do anything out of your way for her when she obviously isnt returning the favor?

If you see her out, say "hi" and ignore her. Just like you would any other chick that is blowing you off.

Red flags for her-

She was at the bar with her mom
She is flakey
She probably makes out with dudes all the time but then the guy at the top of the list bangs her every night

Red flags for you-

You deleted her number and then texted her again
She gets a rise out of you and your head spins every time she comes up around you
You have to stop biting
Amazing memory you have
Ahahhhah You Guys are f8king clowns..., neeeeeext
 

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I'm sort of confused how you say you have all these chicks but then write novels like this routinely.
 

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Ahahhhah You Guys are f8king clowns..., neeeeeext
Name calling now huh?

You're starting to remind me of a short guy with no physic that has ADHD when it comes to dealing with women, who moves and twitches 100 mph like a crack addict looking for a fix.

You need to chill out and stop messing with these trashy wh0res that screw with you mentally.
 

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You have to delete that too, otherwise what difference does deleting the contact make, lol
Not to mention whipping her off all social media (and other chat apps).

Did you know even WhatsApp archives former conversations? So you have to delete those too since they still list the phone number there.

Speaking from experience with the ex-main plate ofc. ;)
 

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Name calling now huh?

You're starting to remind me of a short guy with no physic that has ADHD when it comes to dealing with women, who moves and twitches 100 mph like a crack addict looking for a fix.

You need to chill out and stop messing with these trashy wh0res that screw with you mentally.
Bro, let me set some sheit straight with you honestly.

Name calling was a joke. I mean I find you guys funny for the comments, not hate.

Im happy with all the input always.

Dude, I got a thing for girls that reject me. I want indeed what I cant get.

I got Clara, Daphne, Kim, Anne and numberous names of girls that do call me, that are mad that I nexted them that don't put up for sheit. But I fvcked those enough and its no challenge anymore, they look for ltrs that I dont give them. My reputation hunts me too, these chicks gave me ultimatums. Either you stop fvcking around and be serious or .... So it's not that I always have novels, I just share the fails to learn and grow.

I only share the novels here with the girls that give mixed signals, so im no crackhead junky for girls, I just like what I can't get.

I am indeed a short guy but I guess my confidence, face and social skills put for it.
 

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Remember when I gave you the speech about either being the financial advisor or the homeless bum?

The thought that you are starting yet another thread about this chick is disturbing dude. Why would you do anything out of your way for her when she obviously isnt returning the favor?

If you see her out, say "hi" and ignore her. Just like you would any other chick that is blowing you off.

Red flags for her-

She was at the bar with her mom
She is flakey
She probably makes out with dudes all the time but then the guy at the top of the list bangs her every night

Red flags for you-

You deleted her number and then texted her again
She gets a rise out of you and your head spins every time she comes up around you
You have to stop biting on crumbs

Now pull it together and start gaming other chicks that dont make it tough!
Your speech about the financial advisor and homeless guy is not on point. I know exactley how to attract a girl, how to take action, how to pull up in a first date and how to advise people on the forums. I am a DJ and professional in it but my weak point is the neediness for girls that reject me. That's how it is. I got a well self reflection on everything.

If Kim that I f8ck on the regular without any problems, that cooks for me, that calls me would reject me in the first place and does the sh1t that op girl does I would probably been writing novels about her too, understand my point?

I guess I still got my ego in my way.
 

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Then delete their number if they reject you. Why would you want to keep it anyways? No good would come from keeping it
 

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Go have fun at your local spot on a thursday night. You own the place after all.

For people who reject... delete all contacts informations and than delete all chat or messages (so you have no trace)

Pointless writing here about all your mistakes or ''missed opportunities'' and claim you have success or don't need help... People will evaluate and frame you on what you say... so if you always write ''what I should do'' ... how can we treat you like a DJ. Also, your field rapport good or bad are soo detailed its scary or suspicious lol (maybe not but I don't know how people can remember their date... I don't even remember the name of the girl lol or what I ate)

I am writing this to make you better.

So you go out there, at your spot, because it's your spot, your tradition and meet new people or just enjoy yourself but own it
 

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Thanks guys, I decided to stay in and watch a movie. Got sheit to do anyway tommorow at school.

Going to number close a classmate of me who shows IoI's and saw me make out with a random chick a couple of weeks ago and number close the marketing director hb9 that works at school and shows IoI's too.

Expect some close reports tommorow in the afternoon. Goodnight fellas.
 

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...so you stayed home on pornhub

Honestly the way you are acting over a 7 when you have options is crazy, **** that she rejected you, nothing you have posted about her seems worthy of this bro
 

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...so you stayed home on pornhub

Honestly the way you are acting over a 7 when you have options is crazy, **** that she rejected you, nothing you have posted about her seems worthy of this bro
Basically yeah lmao.
 
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