"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should I go ghost?

Dynasty32

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So this chick and I are both 21 so we follow eachother on twitter and snapchat all that good stuff. Should I go ghost on her until the day we have a date on? The dates like with our friends so not really just is two by ourselves. So go ghost and see if she texts me at all this week before the date or no?I kinda wanted her to drink and pregame it before the concert with me and my friends but I never said that to her at the time.

The date is a date but like a casual one with our friends. With all that being said is the best thing for me to do is to go ghost and see if she texts me at all this week or try's to reach out to me and just lay back and have that mystery about me and that I'm busy?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Paul Ray

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Its always best to keep busy on with your life and focus on other things besides her. If you text her make sure its with a plan and a goal for texting. If you guys are going out to a concert then you can contact her that day and try to set up plans and get on the same page.
 

bigneil

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Even when I was 21, I knew better than to date women who were 21.

21 year old women are the most selfish creatures in the history of biological life. This cannot be disputed.

Either dump them the day they turn 20, or wait until they reach 22, have their quarter-life crisis, get their first wrinkle, and come to terms with the fact that they will not become a Hollywood starlet, are not getting any hotter, and are putting weight on with each passing keg party.
 

NickSCFC

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Going ghost is for when a woman starts to show signs of declining interest level. If you play these games for no reason she'll assume you've lost interest.
 
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