"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Should I go ghost?

Dynasty32

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So this chick and I are both 21 so we follow eachother on twitter and snapchat all that good stuff. Should I go ghost on her until the day we have a date on? The dates like with our friends so not really just is two by ourselves. So go ghost and see if she texts me at all this week before the date or no?I kinda wanted her to drink and pregame it before the concert with me and my friends but I never said that to her at the time.

The date is a date but like a casual one with our friends. With all that being said is the best thing for me to do is to go ghost and see if she texts me at all this week or try's to reach out to me and just lay back and have that mystery about me and that I'm busy?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Paul Ray

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Its always best to keep busy on with your life and focus on other things besides her. If you text her make sure its with a plan and a goal for texting. If you guys are going out to a concert then you can contact her that day and try to set up plans and get on the same page.
 

bigneil

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Even when I was 21, I knew better than to date women who were 21.

21 year old women are the most selfish creatures in the history of biological life. This cannot be disputed.

Either dump them the day they turn 20, or wait until they reach 22, have their quarter-life crisis, get their first wrinkle, and come to terms with the fact that they will not become a Hollywood starlet, are not getting any hotter, and are putting weight on with each passing keg party.
 

NickSCFC

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Going ghost is for when a woman starts to show signs of declining interest level. If you play these games for no reason she'll assume you've lost interest.
 
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