Alright, well on Friday I met this girl named Lindsey at school and she seems pretty interested in me, however, only as a friend. I'm sexually interseted however I don't know if I should go for it. Main reason is this, she's got a boyfriend. How do I know? Well when she was talking I asked if she had a boyfriend and she told me she does and he goes to College and use to go here last year. As much as I would want to move things along with this girl, I just wouldn't want to break them up. But she did seem pretty interested in me when we talked, didn't give the number(Well, said she'd give it to me later), but she was definitely somewhat interested(Even going as far as saying "Hi Mike!" later that day). But I don't know if I want to move things out of the friend zone when she has a boyfriend. Secondly, if I was going to try and move things out of the friend zone onto a more sexual relation what could I do?
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Should I go for a 'more than friends' relationship with this girl?
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"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
Well I actually did kino her a lot, but I don't know if that really changed anything, because after all she still said "I'll give it to you later". If she was REALLY interested and didn't have any doubts, she would've just gave it to me. How did I kino? Basically putting my hands on her shoulders, there this one time where I put my real high up on her leg. Maybe I should start doing heavier kino?ChrizZ said:
"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
KontrollerX
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She'll do to you what she'll do to him.
If you proceed with this and she jumps over to your branch of interest protect your heart as its only going to be a fling before she drops you the same way she dropped her man for you.
If you proceed with this and she jumps over to your branch of interest protect your heart as its only going to be a fling before she drops you the same way she dropped her man for you.
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I personally would not go for it. Thats a huge rule of mine, no stealing gfs without good reason, i.e. he cheats, beats her, or is just a bad guy. BUT, if you do go for her, I'd say take your time. Progress very slowly, and keep up with subtle kino that can be justified if it's questioned. Don't make any moves until you are 100% sure she'd be cool with it.
Or kill her boyfriend and make it look like a mugging. Only thing better than crashing weddings is crashing funerals
Or kill her boyfriend and make it look like a mugging. Only thing better than crashing weddings is crashing funerals