"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I go back?

LeonSK

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I tried to number close this waitress. A couple of her colleagues were staring at us when I was trying to do it. She hesitated for a second and then said "I will tell you if you come back." Should I go back?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yea. I don't see why not. You had the benefit of preparing to ask her meanwhile she didn't see it coming. Don't take hesitation in this case as a negative. If possible, catch this broad alone and you can wrap it up.
 

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LeonSK said:
She hesitated for a second and then said "I will tell you if you come back." Should I go back?
Shes not interested....dont go back.

Think about it....she obviously wasnt into you otherwise she wouldve been enthusiastic to give you her number in front of people. That wouldve been like a "DHV" for her. She was most likely embarrassed and didnt want others to know she was giving her number to you so what does that say?

Her: I will tell you if you come back
You: I wont be back

If she says something along the lines of "fine guess you wont get it", you just smirk and say nothing....then disappear forever.

A lot of guys overestimate the interest from "hired guns", that is people who get paid to "like you". Men always think waitresses have high interest....when in reality her high interest....is in your tip.
 
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