"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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Should I go back?

LeonSK

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I tried to number close this waitress. A couple of her colleagues were staring at us when I was trying to do it. She hesitated for a second and then said "I will tell you if you come back." Should I go back?
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Yea. I don't see why not. You had the benefit of preparing to ask her meanwhile she didn't see it coming. Don't take hesitation in this case as a negative. If possible, catch this broad alone and you can wrap it up.
 

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LeonSK said:
She hesitated for a second and then said "I will tell you if you come back." Should I go back?
Shes not interested....dont go back.

Think about it....she obviously wasnt into you otherwise she wouldve been enthusiastic to give you her number in front of people. That wouldve been like a "DHV" for her. She was most likely embarrassed and didnt want others to know she was giving her number to you so what does that say?

Her: I will tell you if you come back
You: I wont be back

If she says something along the lines of "fine guess you wont get it", you just smirk and say nothing....then disappear forever.

A lot of guys overestimate the interest from "hired guns", that is people who get paid to "like you". Men always think waitresses have high interest....when in reality her high interest....is in your tip.
 
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