Should I give up or not?

[Jack Hensy]

I was kind of aggressive with my first date because I had been drinking. I didn't buy her a drink, I was ****y, we macked and then after date I didn't text her for a week since I was spinning plates. I texted her--- then she didn't text until the next day. Then I accidently deleted her number thinking she was someone else. She is an HB8.

This is the email transcript.

Jack: I'm crazy about you.

Lisa: I gotta tell you, I REALLY didn't gather that from when we met...

Jack: Ok. Lets meet for drinks when you get back. I want to hear what you have to say.
When are you free to get together?

Lisa: But...you were so quick to get offended when I didn't text you back immediately, and then when I did, you asked "who is this?" Doesn't seem like someone whose interested in me...

Jack: What do you mean? Tell me more. I am listening to you.

I stopped emailing her after that.
If she was not interested she would not have replied to my emails.
I asked her out again and she didn't say no either. It is kind of grayish area.

How to proceed from here?

 

[marmel75]

Sounds like a dude who does stupid ass sh!t thinking it's "game" when it's just stupid ass sh!t.

 

[Jack Hensy]

marmel WTF?

Why talk to me like that? That was raw and uncalled for. Dude, I asked for constructive advice not be swore at like a jacked up monkey.

 

[marmel75]

marmel WTF?

Why talk to me like that? That was raw and uncalled for. Dude, I asked for constructive advice not be swore at like a jacked up monkey.

Just being real. I'm not here to pet sh!t with the chickens, so to speak.

To put it more "nicely", you basically auto-rejected yourself by trying to play "too cool".

This chick thinks you are full of sh!t and isn't buying it.

 

[Jack Hensy]

I gotcha that's cool.

 

[beforeimgone]

I was kind of aggressive with my first date because I had been drinking. I didn't buy her a drink, I was ****y, we macked and then after date I didn't text her for a week since I was spinning plates. I texted her--- then she didn't text until the next day. Then I accidently deleted her number thinking she was someone else. She is an HB8.

This is the email transcript.

Jack: I'm crazy about you.

Lisa: I gotta tell you, I REALLY didn't gather that from when we met...

Jack: Ok. Lets meet for drinks when you get back. I want to hear what you have to say.
When are you free to get together?

Lisa: But...you were so quick to get offended when I didn't text you back immediately, and then when I did, you asked "who is this?" Doesn't seem like someone whose interested in me...

Jack: What do you mean? Tell me more. I am listening to you.

I stopped emailing her after that.
If she was not interested she would not have replied to my emails.
I asked her out again and she didn't say no either. It is kind of grayish area.

How to proceed from here?

She's trying to tool you due to the fact that you seem in-congruent.


Next time she tries to tell her you aren't interested, try to schedule a meet up with her instead of entertaining her ("ok, i see. when are you free?")

 

[PrettyBoyAJ]

You got more plates anyway. Focus on them. Anything other then "yes" after asking her on a date is a no. Charge that sh1t to the game dog.

 

[dustmuffin]

Is jack for real? His crap sounds like its out of a sitcom. I'm crazy about you? Never tell a girl you like her. Offended because she didn't reply promptly? You shouldn't give a shiz because you are busy. Lost her number? Access your cell phone account or your call, text log it will be there.....simple stuff. Jack read the dj bible. You have been rude to a number of us on here when we have tried to help you. Seems like you can dish it out but cant take it....never insult someone on here that is helping. Kindness is wasted on many.

 

[Jack Hensy]

dustmuffin show me one of my messages where I have been rude to anyone from the start on this forum?

 

[sunnykhatri736]

marmel WTF?

Why talk to me like that? That was raw and uncalled for. Dude, I asked for constructive advice not be swore at like a jacked up monkey.

The way u replied to marmel shows what kind of person you are and how u deal with girls. Im sure you might have talked to her also in this way and she might came to know your real nature. Marmel was just advicing you for your betterment and if you are not ready to take advice then stop posting threads here because we are here to make u better and tell u ur mistakes so that u dont repeat them but if u are not ready to accept ur mistakes and listen to us then why are u posting here if u think u are ultimate don juan and u dont need our advice

 

[Jack Hensy]

sunnkkatri736 this I what he wrote back......... "Sounds like a dude who does stupid ass sh!t thinking it's "game" when it's just stupid ass sh!t."

I aint going to put up with that crap. His attitude and language was unacceptable. But I made my peace with him. But it seems like you got an attitude with me.

 

[CuddleJunkie]

can we start posting pics of our d¡cks already so we see who has the biggest?

 

[NSX-R]

can we start posting pics of our d¡cks already so we see who has the biggest?

Call Rex to make an official SS "who's got the biggest D " thread . I'm in.

OP, don't get butthurted. That's how marmel usually talks and many other members as well. You called for their advice. If you want to cry , the baby tissues are on the corner.

 

[HeadLightsOn]

My 3" weapon will win hands down. Erm, well, hands on I mean.

 

[raider87]

can we start posting pics of our d¡cks already so we see who has the biggest?

Never send a **** pic. They don't photograph well. Not that I've tried it. Someone else told me this ;]

 

[Lozboss]

OP

Bin this one. You lost this one.

Some tips and advice:

ABC- always be closing but it also stands for "always be chilled" in seduction. No woman wants an emotional man, that means anger too.

You also seem to send mixed signals. It looks like you're an attention seeker or playing games to her.

Always be clear in your intent and don't over Persue.

It's a loss- learn from it

 

[Jack Hensy]

lozbos. Thanks man.


I lost this one because I reacted.

 

[skinnyguy]

The fact that you said "I'm crazy about you" says everything

 

[Jetleg]

I was kind of aggressive with my first date because I had been drinking. I didn't buy her a drink, I was ****y, we macked and then after date I didn't text her for a week since I was spinning plates. I texted her--- then she didn't text until the next day. Then I accidently deleted her number thinking she was someone else. She is an HB8.

This is the email transcript.

Jack: I'm crazy about you.

Lisa: I gotta tell you, I REALLY didn't gather that from when we met...

Jack: Ok. Lets meet for drinks when you get back. I want to hear what you have to say.
When are you free to get together?

Lisa: But...you were so quick to get offended when I didn't text you back immediately, and then when I did, you asked "who is this?" Doesn't seem like someone whose interested in me...

Jack: What do you mean? Tell me more. I am listening to you.

I stopped emailing her after that.
If she was not interested she would not have replied to my emails.
I asked her out again and she didn't say no either. It is kind of grayish area.

How to proceed from here?

Never tell a girl you're crazy about her man...
Its not about when she is free, its about when YOU are free
the "i'm listening to you" is something even her BFF text her.

 

[ImTheDoubleGreatest!]

Some of you are *******s lol.

Jack, just let her go. All the members above have already explained everything else as to why.