"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should i give her a second chance?

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Hey Hey Hey,

So heres the deal. Im in highschool and i just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 months, because she cheated on me with another guy for the 3rd time. It wasnt anything sexual, she just made out with him and 2 other guys on 3 seperate occasions. The first time she was really upset about it and made it up to me. The second time she was at a party and she was drunk, and she was really sorry about it then. But this last time she straight up denied it, when i had tons of credible witnesses (her friends and my friends). With that being said, she also went out of her way everyday to see me inbetween each class and constantly wrote me notes and told me she loved me and what not. On top of that, we have "done it" 7+ times among various things (one involving another girl, shes Bi). She has had tons of boyfriends and they usually end up breaking up with her because she cheats on them, so this is a recourring pattern with her. I dont think shes playing me, i just think shes somewhat of a *****. Do you guys think i should give her another chance? I cant decide because i really like the sex, but if i went back out with her i dont think anything would be different. I know she really likes me and i like her alot too, but im in no way submissive to her.
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Taviii

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I cant stand being cheated. If a girl wants to be your girlfriend then she has to limit herself to you. I guess I'm to proud to endure this kind of treatment.

You should balance how much you like the sex if you think you like it that much with the thoughts of knowing that your girl cheats on you.

If it was for me she could be Angelina Jolie and I still wouldnt accept her back, there are so many beautifull girls in this world, why settle with a b!tch?
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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You can forgive her, but you can not get back together with her, sure you can be freinds with benefits, but you can not go out with her, unless you enjoy the fact that she cheats on you, which what ever she will do again, i am sure of it.
 

Mission

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Stay away, as they say, once a cheater always a cheater. This girl is bad news, you have to take a stand for yourself. When she first cheated on you, she was all cootchie coo and you forgave her, so OBVIOUSLY she will cheat again, because she believes that she can just apologize and it will be all good. Your best to keep away from her cheating ways.

--Mission
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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