"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should i give her a second chance?

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Hey Hey Hey,

So heres the deal. Im in highschool and i just broke up with my girlfriend of 3 months, because she cheated on me with another guy for the 3rd time. It wasnt anything sexual, she just made out with him and 2 other guys on 3 seperate occasions. The first time she was really upset about it and made it up to me. The second time she was at a party and she was drunk, and she was really sorry about it then. But this last time she straight up denied it, when i had tons of credible witnesses (her friends and my friends). With that being said, she also went out of her way everyday to see me inbetween each class and constantly wrote me notes and told me she loved me and what not. On top of that, we have "done it" 7+ times among various things (one involving another girl, shes Bi). She has had tons of boyfriends and they usually end up breaking up with her because she cheats on them, so this is a recourring pattern with her. I dont think shes playing me, i just think shes somewhat of a *****. Do you guys think i should give her another chance? I cant decide because i really like the sex, but if i went back out with her i dont think anything would be different. I know she really likes me and i like her alot too, but im in no way submissive to her.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Taviii

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I cant stand being cheated. If a girl wants to be your girlfriend then she has to limit herself to you. I guess I'm to proud to endure this kind of treatment.

You should balance how much you like the sex if you think you like it that much with the thoughts of knowing that your girl cheats on you.

If it was for me she could be Angelina Jolie and I still wouldnt accept her back, there are so many beautifull girls in this world, why settle with a b!tch?
 

check_mate_kid_uk

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You can forgive her, but you can not get back together with her, sure you can be freinds with benefits, but you can not go out with her, unless you enjoy the fact that she cheats on you, which what ever she will do again, i am sure of it.
 

Mission

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Stay away, as they say, once a cheater always a cheater. This girl is bad news, you have to take a stand for yourself. When she first cheated on you, she was all cootchie coo and you forgave her, so OBVIOUSLY she will cheat again, because she believes that she can just apologize and it will be all good. Your best to keep away from her cheating ways.

--Mission
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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