Should I follow up

[Calibuck]

Good Morning,

I took this girl out last Wed and asked her out on a second date. She said yes, but when I arranged the specifics she said she would let me know today if she has to travel for work on that day. She put a smiley at the end of the text.

If she doesn't follow up with me, should I reach out to her?

 

[MOTU]

Yea I agree with Mauser, let her reach out to you.

 

[Calibuck]

So, she never contacted me yesterday.

Is my play just to drop her and move on? She's very hot only reason why I care.

 

[Infern0]

Do Nothing.

The ball is in her court, she has been asked, let her respond. If she doesn't get in touch with you by the time the date rolls around she either forgot (doubtful) is playing games, or has low interest. In any case, if she didn't get back to me by the time the date came, then I would delete the number.


Never pin all your bets on one horse.

Can I ask why you delete the number, serious question.

I don't doubt your ability to prevent yourself from texting, but if she texts down the line you could confirm something then.

If you don't know who it is you are demonstrating butthurt because you deleted the number. It is possible that something more important than going out again with a guy she dated one time.

I just don't see the logic in it from a tactics standpoint

 

[Alvafe]

Can I ask why you delete the number, serious question.

I don't doubt your ability to prevent yourself from texting, but if she texts down the line you could confirm something then.

If you don't know who it is you are demonstrating butthurt because you deleted the number. It is possible that something more important than going out again with a guy she dated one time.

I just don't see the logic in it from a tactics standpoint

don't matter, deleting it or not is up to you, but the real question is if she texts you don't the line you should be busy with other woman, she didn't bother to even give you a call telling you if the date will happen or not, you are low priority.

by now I would consider the date not happening and you should make others plans, if she calls you on the day or a day before trying to confirm you tell her oh, I made others plans. maybe next time when you are not so busy. and in a week or 2 try again.

your tactics standpoint should be I have others things to pursue then your sorry ass, if she come around good, if not her loss, there is a lot of woman around to waste time with a girl who want to play little games

 

[Calibuck]

Thanks. So we're both on tinder should I unmatch her?