Should I follow only one Guru?

[dibosh]

Hi guys,

I am new to this pickup/seduction community and I want to know that should I follow only one guru and buy only his product or should I follow 2 or 3 of them?

Dibosh.

 

[KarmaSutra]

No. Don't ever follow anyone or anything so blindly you don't leave yourself open to different opinions and perspectives.

As I told you before, Take that which is pertinant to your situation and experience then discard the rest.

Nothing is entirely Gospel truth.

 

[AlexTheGreat]

Read the free stuff first, like the DJ Bible, the new DJ bible part 1 and part 2 compiled by HandyAndy, and a few more links before shelling out money for "gurus".

You shouldn't follow just one guy because you will simply be mimicking him. If you read about more people's ways, you will have a wider range of experience and knowledge, so your overall evolution will be more complete. Read from EVERYONE and take everything with a grain of salt

 

[JDA70]

I agree with both posters here.
I know you got Xuma's Secrets of the Alpha Male cds.
Listen to that then go read the DJ Bible.
Then just go from there. One step at a time.

 

[SinJester]

Don't 'follow a guru'. Try everything out and follow what works for you. You might like to 'follow a guru's method' for a little while to get the hang of it and see what it feels like. If it is working keep going. If it isn't change what you are doing. Everything is experiance, everything will get you closer to what you want.

 

[schttrj]

my first advice would be get out in the field with the learning mindset and f'ck up and learn from there. secondly, i have found the mystery method to be very practical piece, so you can follow that. though, i would note here, that mystery method doesn't emphasize the strength of the inner game that much. but you need to focus on the inner game too. but it is true that outer game develops the inner game.

 

[darkme_legendary]

Yeah you should follow only one guru: YOURSELF.
From other sources: Take anything that works from other sources, integrate it and discard the rest.

 

[COD]

knowledge is power, increase your knowledge and you can determine which ones are better and which ones are just for pure entertainment

 

[Warrior74]

don't spend money on this ****. learn from all the free stuff out there and apply it. Then if you want to spend money later...well go for it. But I think you can get to where you need to go without lining someones pockets. There are no shortcuts, and people who offer you shortcuts usually want money. Change takes time...remember that. Change takes time. Change takes time!
You don't become an olympic swimmer over night, you don't go from having no clue about women to being a don juan/mack/pimp/player over night. You get out and learn, you practice, you see what works, you refine you game, you practice some more and eventually you figure out what your doing and what works for you. Just like anything else in life. Good luck newbie.

 

[KontrollerX]

No.

Take lessons from many different teachers and take the advice from them that you think will work for you.