"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
Should I fight a ticket?
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"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
since this is your first moving violation, they may allow you to attend traffic school so it doesnt show on your driving record.
the back of the ticket should have instructions on what you can do
if you have any questions.
aftershock
Master Don Juan
You were in the fvcking car, you pressed the fvcking pedal to put your fvcking car through a fvcking light! How are you going to get away with it? Say that aliens magically transported your car?
penkitten
Master Don Juan
after so many tickets and points against your driving , you can loose your lisence.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Bible_Belt
Master Don Juan
Yea am taking it to court.
On the last allowed date you show up and fight it. Chances are that either the paperwork gets lost somewhere, the cop wont even remember the incident(or not even show up in which case it gets dismissed) . Even if you do get convicted, it will probably be a smaller fine and you saved yourself a year worth of higher insurance rates.
Just make sure you make up some pretty good excuses for 2nd and 3rd times.
MetalFortress
Master Don Juan
You know you ran it. Pay up. If you didn't run it and you got ticketed anyways, fight it.
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
spider_007
Master Don Juan
YES, if your gona loose points (and if it's financially worth it)
diablo
Master Don Juan
No offense, but this is crap. So basically a non-moving violation is the same as a moving violation? After all, they both deal with "points"... and if "points" don't matter until you're about to lose your license, who cares how many you have?
Seriously, you might want to reconsider what you think you know about insurance and how it works.