"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I feel bad about not taking a girl's bl0wjob virginity?

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I was in a LTR with a girl for a year, but I never got the desire to make her suck me off.
We did a lot of sexual things other than oral, it just never really occurred to me to do it.

There's a chance I'll get back with her in the future (don't ask how I know, long story)
but the thought that she's sucked other ****s makes me regret not making her do it to me first.

Other question, why do you like getting head? Is it for pleasure or is it more an act of domination?
I knew that I dominated my girl because I fvked her mind, body and soul.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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HoneyHitter

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First, there's no such thing as bj virginity. You just made up your own mental road block.

Second, if you have to ask why men like getting head you are probably missing a well-functioning penis.
 
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First, there's no such thing as bj virginity. You just made up your own mental road block.
Yeah idk why, but I'd rather teach her how to do it than have her be already good at it.

Second, if you have to ask why men like getting head you are probably missing a well-functioning penis.
Perhaps circumcision isn't as prevalent in the Netherlands
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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