"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should I feel bad about not taking a girl's bl0wjob virginity?

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I was in a LTR with a girl for a year, but I never got the desire to make her suck me off.
We did a lot of sexual things other than oral, it just never really occurred to me to do it.

There's a chance I'll get back with her in the future (don't ask how I know, long story)
but the thought that she's sucked other ****s makes me regret not making her do it to me first.

Other question, why do you like getting head? Is it for pleasure or is it more an act of domination?
I knew that I dominated my girl because I fvked her mind, body and soul.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HoneyHitter

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First, there's no such thing as bj virginity. You just made up your own mental road block.

Second, if you have to ask why men like getting head you are probably missing a well-functioning penis.
 
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First, there's no such thing as bj virginity. You just made up your own mental road block.
Yeah idk why, but I'd rather teach her how to do it than have her be already good at it.

Second, if you have to ask why men like getting head you are probably missing a well-functioning penis.
Perhaps circumcision isn't as prevalent in the Netherlands
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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