"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Should I FACEBOOK.com a girl

juleswinns

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I want to facebook this hot girl who's a customer at my job. She's a student like myself and I found her on facebook (myspace for students) and I'm wondering if I should contact her. She has a boyfriend but he's a dork and she's been giving me IOI's.

Any advise?:whistle:
 

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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BacardiGuy

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If you're going to do it, make the move in person at work.

And post in the right areas.
 

sanyo7878

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I wouldn't add her as a friend unless you have really had serious conversation with her (you know, other than about your job while you are at work).
 

Eccentric

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Talk to her in person. You'll do better.
 

Luveno

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The internet is a good place to meet NEW girls. It is not a place to try to gain the attention of girls you already know. Doing so is supplication, which diminishes your value.

The best thing for you to do is to make the move at work in person. It's easy. Suggest a martini or a coffee on Friday evening.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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The whole facebook thing is cool once you've been formally introduced. DO NOT IM her or contact her through facebook. Its not a good idea. I don't know by personal experience but I have friends that mess their chances up with girls because they use facebook or hi5 etc.
 
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