Francisco d'Anconia
Master Don Juan
Typically people are more comfortable with others which have similar body types. However, more overweight people tend to gravitate to fit people than vice versa.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
should i date this girl that like me?
- Thread starter knight56
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
squirrels
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278 pounds is not fat.
278 pounds is "If I saw her swimming in a pool, I'd chuck a harpoon at her."
278 pounds is "If I saw her swimming in a pool, I'd chuck a harpoon at her."
DeathDealer
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I weigh 160 pounds at 5' 10". The most I'll ever date is someone that weighs 15 more pounsd than me (that's 175 for the math handicapped) usually you can tell too. They also have to match heigh/weight porportions too. If they're 5'1" and weigh 150lbs... I'm staying away from that. But if they're 5'5" and weigh 160lbs that's cool (a girl that height should be 140lbs)
Since girls average height is 5'5" - 248lbs is friggin obese!!! of course they'll like you and stuff just cause of attention.
Since girls average height is 5'5" - 248lbs is friggin obese!!! of course they'll like you and stuff just cause of attention.
xhikari
Don Juan
u must like killing them poor whales huh?
