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The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

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Should I date only cougars?

sosousage

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By definition cougar is older woman who have sex with younger men.

But Im tired of getting nexted because she found someone who lives alone so she can bang him without his parrents or her parrents hearing.


Im considering only dating older girls (in their 30s) that live alone so its not a problem.

There are girls asking me for date that are in their 20s but im too often getting nexted because of it.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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At least u r not going after trannies.

For practise, a woman is a woman regardless of age. Above all else, she has to be attractive and bang-able.

I suggest you fool around with college girls, their more fun and there's no commitment from them.
 

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By definition cougar is older woman who have sex with younger men.

But Im tired of getting nexted because she found someone who lives alone so she can bang him without his parrents or her parrents hearing.


Im considering only dating older girls (in their 30s) that live alone so its not a problem.

There are girls asking me for date that are in their 20s but im too often getting nexted because of it.
Are you saying you don’t have your own place?

-Augustus-
 

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gtfo of your parents... 23... grow up
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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sosousage

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A lot of college girls have their own apartment.
im not sure whats the equivalent naming of college in my country because we dont have college but students either live with parents or with friends, and in both cases they are more than likely to next someone like them, without a place and car, for a guy with car and his own place (assuming we are talking about females)
 

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I would always want my own wheels of some sort. But I like motorcycles, and I would take a beat-up scooter over not having any transportation.

What about trees? Do you have those? Take her to the woods and bend her over against a tree.
 

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no im 23 and girls my age or even younger look for dude with his home
Bit hard to get your own place when you work in McDonalds, literally.

Time to step up the real "game": Your life.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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meh, living alone or not is just a excuse really, you could always go to a motel if you really lack a place to do the deed, I would recomend you work on yourself more and stop waste time with gold diggers
 

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meh, living alone or not is just a excuse really, you could always go to a motel if you really lack a place to do the deed, I would recomend you work on yourself more and stop waste time with gold diggers
i dont think its an excuse. why do you think girls in early 20s want older men? own place and financial stability is one of the main reasons
 

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You older guys who are telling him to get his own place are actually retarded. Don’t you know how hard it is to do that nowadays? This economic system isn’t the same as it was 20+ years ago. There are no more jobs that someone in his 20s can have to get his own place or maintain a family. They don’t exist anymore. They just aren’t here. Maybe in the Philippines, or India, or China, or Mexico. But not in the US.
 

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You older guys who are telling him to get his own place are actually retarded. Don’t you know how hard it is to do that nowadays? This economic system isn’t the same as it was 20+ years ago. There are no more jobs that someone in his 20s can have to get his own place or maintain a family. They don’t exist anymore. They just aren’t here. Maybe in the Philippines, or India, or China, or Mexico. But not in the US.
I was making 160K at 25 in a cheap area and bought my first house at 24....
 

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You older guys who are telling him to get his own place are actually retarded. Don’t you know how hard it is to do that nowadays? This economic system isn’t the same as it was 20+ years ago. There are no more jobs that someone in his 20s can have to get his own place or maintain a family. They don’t exist anymore. They just aren’t here. Maybe in the Philippines, or India, or China, or Mexico. But not in the US.
im from Poland but that doesnt matter. I will just date cougars
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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ImTheDoubleGreatest!

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I was one of the best in my industry at a very young age
But that’s not something that everyone has. That’s like stocks and bonds. Very volatile. You need to know what you’re doing and/or have some luck or otherwise you lose out big.
 

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By definition cougar is older woman who have sex with younger men.

But Im tired of getting nexted because she found someone who lives alone so she can bang him without his parrents or her parrents hearing.


Im considering only dating older girls (in their 30s) that live alone so its not a problem.

There are girls asking me for date that are in their 20s but im too often getting nexted because of it.
Sounds like a good plan. Date with older ladies for some time until you become bored, in that time you will learn many useful things from them if you understand what I mean, so bro, as I said it looks as a good plan... :)
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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