"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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should i contact her or stay silent

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Girl from Morocco earlier thread: she posts pics on facebook That hè left and hurt her ( i made her fall in love and left) and that shes in love and pain. she tells my nephew that she misses me called me two days ago i was indifferent and Hung up quickly. She reacts on every facebook picture i upload 'love you' 'miss you' I just wanna contact her to tell her to take care of hersel until i go back but a lot of you guys told me stay silent ghostmode dont give her closure. I want to contact to tell her I care and that she shouldnt drink too much and take care of herself for me.

Stay silent or contacting now in then in this situation? Who know whats the best game in such situations? Shes attached i can tell, we had a great time.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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What good is telling her that going to do? Just leave it alone before you do more damage.
 
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I think you need to lay it down honestly for her man. LGBF her and gradually ease off. karma is a b and u wouldn't wanna be treated the same way.
 
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We gave you the correct advice in your previous thread. Sounds like a case of ONEitis to me. Distance yourself and ignore. This is not rocket science...."keep it simple stupid".
 
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