"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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should i contact her or stay silent

TheGambino

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Girl from Morocco earlier thread: she posts pics on facebook That hè left and hurt her ( i made her fall in love and left) and that shes in love and pain. she tells my nephew that she misses me called me two days ago i was indifferent and Hung up quickly. She reacts on every facebook picture i upload 'love you' 'miss you' I just wanna contact her to tell her to take care of hersel until i go back but a lot of you guys told me stay silent ghostmode dont give her closure. I want to contact to tell her I care and that she shouldnt drink too much and take care of herself for me.

Stay silent or contacting now in then in this situation? Who know whats the best game in such situations? Shes attached i can tell, we had a great time.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Pardner

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What good is telling her that going to do? Just leave it alone before you do more damage.
 

beatjunkie

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I think you need to lay it down honestly for her man. LGBF her and gradually ease off. karma is a b and u wouldn't wanna be treated the same way.
 

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We gave you the correct advice in your previous thread. Sounds like a case of ONEitis to me. Distance yourself and ignore. This is not rocket science...."keep it simple stupid".
 
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