"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should I change my style?

Nikar

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Today, I was talking to 2 female friends and one of them (Girl A, HB8.5) was going into a dance competition, and I asked her whether she'll be wearing those skin-tight translucent ballet spandex so that I can see through something.

She just giggle a little and then Girl B (HB5.5) cut in, and told me with a mildy disgusted look, and she said "You're really gross, u know?"

After that, I quickly move on to change the topic slightly by laughing it off and saying to Girl A, "So, you'll be wearing colorful uniforms? Maybe you can show us a video next time."

So, did I screw up? Or perhaps I should be more DJ? I dunno how to handle such comments when the girls seem to be truly disgusted with me.

I'm just trying to show a bit of my sexual side (and come one, which normal guy don't wanna see hot chicks in translucent spandex??!!)

Pls advise what I could have done better.
Now I'm scared they may start thinking I'm some sick pervert.

Girl A (HB8.5) seems to be a lot more receptive to my flirting advances, though. The other girl, Girl B,.......well, I can't really seem to connect well with her.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Squidward

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Girl B ****blocked you mate, no question. Just my opinion here but it's usual better to make friends with the girl you're trying to game friends aswell, so they don't go talking smack about you to the girl you've trying to game.

I would of replied to Girl B with a witty comment ;) But thats me...
 

Rounder

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Girl B was so jealous it's hilarious! If you would have said something like that to her she would have been unzipping your fly with her teeth!

I've decided I will not apologize to women for wanting sex or being interested in their bodies. I sure as hell used to do that, but not anymore.

As soon as we are "nice and sweet" and saying all the things we "think" they want to hear - the very next minute they are wanting the guy in the leather jacket and ripped jeans who will take advantage of them.

Girl A liked the comment - Girl B was jealous. The fact that Girl B didn't like it - will make Girl A want you even more.

How many times do we tell a friend - dude, what the hell are you doing with her? You need to dump her! - and what does our friend do? He will try even harder to prove he's right and stay with her! Girls do the same thing - the more her friend tries to dissuade her from seeing you, the faster you'll get in her pants.

Hopefully you didn't defend yourself to Girl B, no reason for that.
 

Duffdog

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You could always say to girl B "what, you don't think she [8.5] would look hot in _____?" And put the 5.5 on the spot. I think getting one girl to vocally admit that she is inferior helps you game the hot one even more.
 

slickaz

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Duffdog said:
You could always say to girl B "what, you don't think she [8.5] would look hot in _____?" And put the 5.5 on the spot. I think getting one girl to vocally admit that she is inferior helps you game the hot one even more.
QFT
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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JJMcLure

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Girl B was just hating because she was jealous. Don't sweat it and maintain a strong frame in these situations. It's Girl A's reaction that counts.

However, just be wary if there's potential for Girl B to become an obstacle and start ****blocking you by dissing you behind you back. In that case make sure to disarm the obstacle. Regarding connecting with Girl B, she likely has low self esteem so resultingly puts up a shield. Approaches like overly ****y funny or neg hits directed at these type of insecure chicks can crush them so calibrate your approach to her.
 
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