"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alright, so I met this Hb not so long ago at the library and we hit it off. We spoke for about 3 hrs and I walked out with her digits. Now we met up once for lunch and spoke for another few hours. I kept the convo interesting and she kept on asking me questions, so it was obvious she was engaged (good eye contact). Now, I called her last weekend to see if she wanted to get some coffee but she was busy studying for an exam she had the next morning. Nonetheless, she told me she would call me back some time this weekend so we could get together after her exam. Now, usually I would not call her back considering the ball is back on her court and I have pride, but it seems to me this chic is playing hard to get. Should I just blow her off or should I wait and call one last time?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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busy studying for an exam she had the next morning. Nonetheless, she told me she would call me back some time this weekend so we could get together after her exam. Now, usually I would not call her back considering the ball is back on her court and I have pride, but it seems to me this chic is playing hard to get. Should I just blow her off or should I wait and call one last time?
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Pride sucks eh? Seriously, if she legimately had an exam to study for, what are you doing with your thumb up your ass wondering if she blew you off?!?

Phone her and set up another day, if she gives another excuse...well, THAT'S When you reconsider.

That, and kick yourself where it hurts for being so bluntly stupid about your pride.
 
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Originally posted by Docs
Pride sucks eh? Seriously, if she legimately had an exam to study for, what are you doing with your thumb up your ass wondering if she blew you off?!?

Phone her and set up another day, if she gives another excuse...well, THAT'S When you reconsider.

That, and kick yourself where it hurts for being so bluntly stupid about your pride.
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well said!
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

Read more...

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