When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
haha i can imagine the asian store owners from dont be a meanace in south central while drinking your juice or whatever saying thatOriginally posted by PurplePimp
after read this post i can not believe you guys no like my tips.
what is this crap? this site is for man with testicle not for little boy who cry over shirt.
moderators delete my tip.
i say girl care about details. man see bigger picture. who care if your friend where whatever he want. why you care so much where he get shirt from or even what he wear? you insecure like little girl.
real man no care for small stuff like that.
i still can not believe they say i post bad and then this man write so much it make me hungry and other person still serious to him in reply they give.
When I read this I can hear a Russian voice in my head.Originally posted by PurplePimp
after read this post i can not believe you guys no like my tips.
what is this crap? this site is for man with testicle not for little boy who cry over shirt.
moderators delete my tip.
i say girl care about details. man see bigger picture. who care if your friend where whatever he want. why you care so much where he get shirt from or even what he wear? you insecure like little girl.
real man no care for small stuff like that.
i still can not believe they say i post bad and then this man write so much and other person still serious to him in reply they give.
also you post here since 3 year ago and you say this? go read bible you afc. do it now
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.