Why "Whatever You Want" Keeps You Single

She says the movie looks dumb; you suddenly agree. She tests you with a little attitude; you apologize for nothing.

You think you're being easy to get along with. She reads something else entirely: a man with no edges. Nothing to hold on to. No friction, no tension, no reason to wonder what he really thinks.

The "22 Rules" taught me to push back — playfully, calmly, without needing her approval. Strange things happened after that.

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Should i call or not?

Malex86

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Long story short -

-picked up a girl couple of weeks ago,
-got her number,
-she's hot... from iceland, good degree, good job in business management & 24 years old

Ok so i had to call of our first date last night because i didn't feel that good, felt a cold coming on and a bit run down... so i sent her a text to say i'll call her later and she said cool we'll reschedule.

I called her and she answered (sounded happy) but she was out with her girlfriends so i said "i guess it's not convenient to talk right now" and she said "no not really, call me tomorrow"

now i'd already text her previously about this comedy show i really want to go to next friday, and she said "sounds cool" but it starts early and need to confirm whether she'd be able to make it after work...

my question is should i call tonight like she suggested or wait til sunday (just so i don't appear to eager, or available?)

thanks
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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CaptainJ

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How about you stop being a pvssy and do what you want to do.
 

Malex86

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CaptainJ said:
How about you stop being a pvssy and do what you want to do.
have you ever thought maybe you're on a forum for discussing how to pick up and lay chicks. Save the douchebag attitude for real life if that's what works for you because online you look like a nerd
 

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Wait till sunday and call to confirm, Girl check their phones all the time....If she is interested she will be there without your constant reminders.

It is that simple...
 

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women haze said:
Wait till sunday and call to confirm, Girl check their phones all the time....If she is interested she will be there without your constant reminders.

It is that simple...
I called before i read this post... she is coming friday, all is good... perhaps i affirmed the importance of friday too much to her and came across a tad insecure (we all make mistakes) but the tickets are expensive and no i didn't trick on her for them i'd already bought them..
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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