"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Should i call or not?

Malex86

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Long story short -

-picked up a girl couple of weeks ago,
-got her number,
-she's hot... from iceland, good degree, good job in business management & 24 years old

Ok so i had to call of our first date last night because i didn't feel that good, felt a cold coming on and a bit run down... so i sent her a text to say i'll call her later and she said cool we'll reschedule.

I called her and she answered (sounded happy) but she was out with her girlfriends so i said "i guess it's not convenient to talk right now" and she said "no not really, call me tomorrow"

now i'd already text her previously about this comedy show i really want to go to next friday, and she said "sounds cool" but it starts early and need to confirm whether she'd be able to make it after work...

my question is should i call tonight like she suggested or wait til sunday (just so i don't appear to eager, or available?)

thanks
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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CaptainJ

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How about you stop being a pvssy and do what you want to do.
 

Malex86

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CaptainJ said:
How about you stop being a pvssy and do what you want to do.
have you ever thought maybe you're on a forum for discussing how to pick up and lay chicks. Save the douchebag attitude for real life if that's what works for you because online you look like a nerd
 

women haze

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Wait till sunday and call to confirm, Girl check their phones all the time....If she is interested she will be there without your constant reminders.

It is that simple...
 

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women haze said:
Wait till sunday and call to confirm, Girl check their phones all the time....If she is interested she will be there without your constant reminders.

It is that simple...
I called before i read this post... she is coming friday, all is good... perhaps i affirmed the importance of friday too much to her and came across a tad insecure (we all make mistakes) but the tickets are expensive and no i didn't trick on her for them i'd already bought them..
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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