"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Should I call or let her call?

medicinemc2

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I was out to lunch yesterday with some friends and met this hb8 while having dinner. I noticed the eye contact so after lunch I went ahead to her table and introduced myself. Her friends ended up leaving and we stayed in the bar. Had a nice convo for about 30 min (had to go back to work) and agreed on meeting tonight. Well this afternoon I got a call from her telling me how she has to stay late at work and how bad she felt about cancelling on me. Now my question is the following...should I now wait for her to call me or should I call her this weekend? I had planned on inviting to her to this event I have tomorrow but I don't know if that would be the smooth thing to do. What you all think?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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sav

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call her, have a bit of fluff talk, then tell her she can make it up to you by coming with you to this event... :)
 

Cod3r

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Let her call, stop chasing chicks...


-Cod3r
 
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