"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Should I call or let her call?

medicinemc2

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I was out to lunch yesterday with some friends and met this hb8 while having dinner. I noticed the eye contact so after lunch I went ahead to her table and introduced myself. Her friends ended up leaving and we stayed in the bar. Had a nice convo for about 30 min (had to go back to work) and agreed on meeting tonight. Well this afternoon I got a call from her telling me how she has to stay late at work and how bad she felt about cancelling on me. Now my question is the following...should I now wait for her to call me or should I call her this weekend? I had planned on inviting to her to this event I have tomorrow but I don't know if that would be the smooth thing to do. What you all think?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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sav

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call her, have a bit of fluff talk, then tell her she can make it up to you by coming with you to this event... :)
 

Cod3r

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Let her call, stop chasing chicks...


-Cod3r
 
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