"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Should I call it quits with this tinder girl

Dhoulmagus

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This tinder girl gave me her number, so I invited her to a fraternity party. She told me she was going to bring and a friend and come. The party got busted by the cops and she called me to ask where was it at. I told her the party got busted and she said her friend really wanted to go and she will let me know what happens next. Code word for I am going home. I haven't talked to her since, but I roommates say I should recontact.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Krueg

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Yes, call it quits. In fact run away! Girls give out their numbers to guys all the time for any reason. They usually have some hidden agenda; who knows why she gave it to you without YOU asking. Its not how dating/nature works. You have to ask for the number. Also she had a friend... she obviously didnt wanna be alone with you. :rolleyes:
 

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Krueg said:
Yes, call it quits. In fact run away! Girls give out their numbers to guys all the time for any reason. They usually have some hidden agenda; who knows why she gave it to you without YOU asking. Its not how dating/nature works. You have to ask for the number. Also she had a friend... she obviously didnt wanna be alone with you. :rolleyes:
It is tinder lol, I understand her being scared.
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
It is tinder lol, I understand her being scared.
Sorry, didnt realize what "Tinder" meant, had to Google it...

Anyways, point is.. If you want dates, you have to do the asking. That way you know right on the spot if she is interested or not. Preferably in person, you cannot really tell over the computer.. This will save you time by rooting out the UN-Interested chicks!
 
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