"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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Should I call it quits with this tinder girl

Dhoulmagus

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This tinder girl gave me her number, so I invited her to a fraternity party. She told me she was going to bring and a friend and come. The party got busted by the cops and she called me to ask where was it at. I told her the party got busted and she said her friend really wanted to go and she will let me know what happens next. Code word for I am going home. I haven't talked to her since, but I roommates say I should recontact.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Krueg

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Yes, call it quits. In fact run away! Girls give out their numbers to guys all the time for any reason. They usually have some hidden agenda; who knows why she gave it to you without YOU asking. Its not how dating/nature works. You have to ask for the number. Also she had a friend... she obviously didnt wanna be alone with you. :rolleyes:
 

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Krueg said:
Yes, call it quits. In fact run away! Girls give out their numbers to guys all the time for any reason. They usually have some hidden agenda; who knows why she gave it to you without YOU asking. Its not how dating/nature works. You have to ask for the number. Also she had a friend... she obviously didnt wanna be alone with you. :rolleyes:
It is tinder lol, I understand her being scared.
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
It is tinder lol, I understand her being scared.
Sorry, didnt realize what "Tinder" meant, had to Google it...

Anyways, point is.. If you want dates, you have to do the asking. That way you know right on the spot if she is interested or not. Preferably in person, you cannot really tell over the computer.. This will save you time by rooting out the UN-Interested chicks!
 
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