"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Should I call it quits with this tinder girl

Dhoulmagus

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This tinder girl gave me her number, so I invited her to a fraternity party. She told me she was going to bring and a friend and come. The party got busted by the cops and she called me to ask where was it at. I told her the party got busted and she said her friend really wanted to go and she will let me know what happens next. Code word for I am going home. I haven't talked to her since, but I roommates say I should recontact.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Krueg

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Yes, call it quits. In fact run away! Girls give out their numbers to guys all the time for any reason. They usually have some hidden agenda; who knows why she gave it to you without YOU asking. Its not how dating/nature works. You have to ask for the number. Also she had a friend... she obviously didnt wanna be alone with you. :rolleyes:
 

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Krueg said:
Yes, call it quits. In fact run away! Girls give out their numbers to guys all the time for any reason. They usually have some hidden agenda; who knows why she gave it to you without YOU asking. Its not how dating/nature works. You have to ask for the number. Also she had a friend... she obviously didnt wanna be alone with you. :rolleyes:
It is tinder lol, I understand her being scared.
 

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Dhoulmagus said:
It is tinder lol, I understand her being scared.
Sorry, didnt realize what "Tinder" meant, had to Google it...

Anyways, point is.. If you want dates, you have to do the asking. That way you know right on the spot if she is interested or not. Preferably in person, you cannot really tell over the computer.. This will save you time by rooting out the UN-Interested chicks!
 
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