"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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LiftnWeights09

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i got this girls phone number i really like she gave it to me...now my friend says i should not call her but i think i should he says i shouldn't call her until i ask her to do something with me is that right?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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you barely gave us any information LW09. all we know is that the girl that you like gave you her number.

Is she a girl from your school? If she is, dont call her. Ask her out during school (i.e action date over the weekend). once thats down, flirt with her during school hours. then (most probably the 3rd day) you should call her and flirt with her (and try starting off [the convo] with things you flirted with her during school).

If she is not from your school, call her and proceed to 5 - 10min flirting (escalate to sexual flirting). then ask her out for the weekend. (forget what the DJ Bible said about 1st dates on weekends because your only in HS. the guide is a little different; use it to your advantage)

your goal is to attract, not seduce. that should be your ultimatum. no matter what you do, you should lead it to attraction.

The PleasureKing
 
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She gave you the # so call. Just play around with her and talk. If you want try meetup with her. If she gave you her # she likes you to a certain extent.
 
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ok this girl is from school a few days before i asked her for her phone number i asked her on a date and she agreed i didnt no her that well and i decided to ask her for her # and she gave it to me i figured i should get to kno her better
 
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