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I went out on a date with this chick last week. Everything went pretty good and I have heard nothing but good things from HER friends about what a good time she had. But the past couple of days, she has been acting different around me. She kind of ignores me and doesnt keep eye contact and acts a little nervous around me. I have also been told by her friends that she has feelings for me and was surprised when I asked her out because she thought we were friends. Now she is the shy type and I read in some other threads how some shy girls may have a high interest level in you when they start to ignore you or act differently around you. So my question is should I call her out on how she has been ignoring me or should I just wait and see if she changes. Help is desperately needed.
 

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Shy women get nervous around guys that they like - this is normal.

Of course you should 'not' bring this behavior to her attention - it'll just make her more nervous and self-conscious!

You have been told that she likes you - I don't see where your concern/doubts originate from. Just dont be overly aggressive and take things slower than normal and make her feel comfortable being around you - only then will she open up to you.
 
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Dood don't call her out on "her behavior." She's done nothing wrong!!! I don't know about her have "feelings" for you so soon, but if you know she likes you then don't worry about it.

There was a girl last semester that was totally into me. I knew she was physically attracted to me but I had no idea how much she wanted/liked me because everytime I was around her she'd be super shy and insecure. I just took this as a low interest level and now I'm banging her friend...:D



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She may have feelings for you and she might be afraid you don't for her. It's kind of a defense mechanism.

Ask her out again...
 
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