"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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Should I call her (i dont want to do what she tells me to do)?

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You seem to be more of an expert on online dating, you know POF right in your inbox it shows up all the people who have messaged you at the top of the messages with green online symbols.

Do girls ever get jealous seeing a guy they're dating on POF online?

I dont mean this girl in particular, that's finished now but another plate i had and lost she seemed to think i was seeing someone else with no indication of such apart from when i saw her online Fri night i immediately logged off cos i told her i had 'plans'.. she hinted at this in a message she sent me a few days later.

I just assume they have soooo many messages that the online status green symbols must be running into easily 30-40 minimum so unless she's actually looking out for your name then i dont see why she'd care or notice?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Don Juans learn by playing in the field and finding out their weak links. I'd rather you post questions about field reports rather than a thousand posts on 'Should I cut my losses with this girl?'

With that being said, read the DJ bible again. A common occurence within all your questions in your security as a man. Get it into your head that you don't deserve disrespect and will walk away from the source.
 
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