"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should I call her (i dont want to do what she tells me to do)?

big weezy

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Espi said:
My responses in bold.
You seem to be more of an expert on online dating, you know POF right in your inbox it shows up all the people who have messaged you at the top of the messages with green online symbols.

Do girls ever get jealous seeing a guy they're dating on POF online?

I dont mean this girl in particular, that's finished now but another plate i had and lost she seemed to think i was seeing someone else with no indication of such apart from when i saw her online Fri night i immediately logged off cos i told her i had 'plans'.. she hinted at this in a message she sent me a few days later.

I just assume they have soooo many messages that the online status green symbols must be running into easily 30-40 minimum so unless she's actually looking out for your name then i dont see why she'd care or notice?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Konada

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Don Juans learn by playing in the field and finding out their weak links. I'd rather you post questions about field reports rather than a thousand posts on 'Should I cut my losses with this girl?'

With that being said, read the DJ bible again. A common occurence within all your questions in your security as a man. Get it into your head that you don't deserve disrespect and will walk away from the source.
 
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