"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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should i call her again?

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Met these two chicks with my buddy, both are leaving to go back to their country in a month.
We all hung out 2 weekends ago...had fun...
friend called one of em last wed (18th), left message, she called back later saying she was busy but that I should call the other one to hang out....
I call her, she doesn't answer....calls me back 2 hrs later and ask if she wants to go to sporting event, she has to work till 930 or so, but to call her after i'm done...i call her around 10, no answer (she never answers when i call, always calling me back), she calls me back at 1045, i don't answer (don't want to look desperate), leaves a message she's tired, blah blah maybe we can hangout next weekend.

Do i call her back or says screw it and if she never calls me to hangout, no big loss and forget about it? Or do i call and leave a message, cause i know she won't answer, and see if she wants to hang out.

my opinoin is that i hsould say screw it, if she wants to hang out then cool, she can call me.

what u guys think
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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you seem a bit insecure if you're not picking up because you think it'll make you look desperate...

from how it looks to me right now, you should call if you want to leave a message and hang out with her, sure she could call you but if she isn't then you might as well call her since she's leaving to some other country soon, if she doesn't call you back so what? She'll be in another country soon and (probably) out of your life
 
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been a while since i've been on here, what is “hands on eyes” story?
i did a search for it and couldn't find it.
 
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Call her back and answer the damn phone when she calls you. That is if you want to have sex with her before she goes back in a month.

If not then just forget it.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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