"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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should i call her again?

anonuser78

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Met these two chicks with my buddy, both are leaving to go back to their country in a month.
We all hung out 2 weekends ago...had fun...
friend called one of em last wed (18th), left message, she called back later saying she was busy but that I should call the other one to hang out....
I call her, she doesn't answer....calls me back 2 hrs later and ask if she wants to go to sporting event, she has to work till 930 or so, but to call her after i'm done...i call her around 10, no answer (she never answers when i call, always calling me back), she calls me back at 1045, i don't answer (don't want to look desperate), leaves a message she's tired, blah blah maybe we can hangout next weekend.

Do i call her back or says screw it and if she never calls me to hangout, no big loss and forget about it? Or do i call and leave a message, cause i know she won't answer, and see if she wants to hang out.

my opinoin is that i hsould say screw it, if she wants to hang out then cool, she can call me.

what u guys think
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Hanzo

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you seem a bit insecure if you're not picking up because you think it'll make you look desperate...

from how it looks to me right now, you should call if you want to leave a message and hang out with her, sure she could call you but if she isn't then you might as well call her since she's leaving to some other country soon, if she doesn't call you back so what? She'll be in another country soon and (probably) out of your life
 

anonuser78

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been a while since i've been on here, what is “hands on eyes” story?
i did a search for it and couldn't find it.
 

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Call her back and answer the damn phone when she calls you. That is if you want to have sex with her before she goes back in a month.

If not then just forget it.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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