"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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should i call her again?

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Hi guys, I have a problem, I met this girl on the train home from penn station. I decided to talk to her. we talked for the whole ride and at the end I asked for her number. she gave it. She did not ask me for my name nor did she give her name until I read it aloud after she wrote it above her number. Now, I don't want to leave out details that might help you come to an accurate answer. I accidentally left my phone on the train, called it later and she agreed to meet me later to get it. I thanked her, some small talk, and called her two days later. First call she was sleeping. I told her I would call later. Yes it was her #. 2ND call she didn't pick up. I left a message. she never called back. Should I call her again or write it off as a loss? Pleassssse help me. I'm 7 years out of the dating loop and I think I read her right. Do girls give there numbers out if they don't like you?
 
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"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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The Nice Guy is Gone

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She was sleeping??

Did you call in the middle of the night or something?

And if she really was she wouldn't answered her phone or maybe she would I know I do if I hear it.

Regardless even if she was she answered it you should have just said what you wanted to say. Why hang up she's awake now so the damage is already done.

Mistake was to hang up and try again later so soon. Should of waited a couple of days then try again.

Should you next?

Up to you not us. Just don't put all your eggs all in one basket with this one or anyone for that matter.

In the mean time keep playin the field
 

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In her defence she works nights but yr right i should have stated my goals right there. thanks
 

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call her during the day man!
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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