"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Should I break from the "norm"?

RabidDog

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I havent wanted to go out for a while now, been to busy with other crap in my life. I went and got my hair did :p and the girl who cut my hair was very outgoing and was neg-hitting and C and F ng me just as much as I was her. (yes i know hair stylists have to be that way) but this one went above and beyond. She (to me) gave me all kinds of signals, even gave me a reason to call later for a number close.. I feel all the sighns are there, but..

I'm not overly attracted to her and shes older than me, I dont usually date less than hb8 or 9's and she would be a 6-7, but the personality would bump her to an 8.5 or 9 (if you decided that matters :p ) and I usually date very young, my last was 19 while I'm 28. I think she'd be a blast to date and a ball in the bed, but theres the attraction thing and the age thing, I'm not used to it. I'm not even sure she's not spoken for, but if she is, shes not realllly not showing it. All it would take is to ask my neighbor to find out and that's it. I might call since she gave me a reason, but I dont think it should be until monday or tuesday if I do? Should I break from the norm? or stay with it?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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RabidDog

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Thanks alot for the post. ;)

Well, I am partially phyisically attracted to her becuase of the potential "older woman factor". I have never "dated" an older woman (granted shes only 3 years older), but I've had some great "times" with them. From the banter today, I would say I would be in for a wild ride. As far as finding her attractive on a non sexually useful way, not really, no.

So if I do call, when should it be? I'm thinking monday or tuesday.

Any other suggestions?
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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