Please read this, I know its kind of long.
Me and this girl have gotten to know each other in one of my college classes. She and I were group members on assignments and we sit next to each other. Got her phone number the first day of class too. We have sent texts to each other, but they are mostly initiated due to class stuff.
We have a field trip assignment that we have to individually go and do (the place we go is our decision) and then we have to do a little write up on it. Anyways, last class when she was looking at her syllabus I asked her what we had coming up as far as assignments due. We looked over the syllabus together and noticed the field trip thing which is due 2 weeks from now. I decide to say "hey, we should do this together". She responded with "Yea, we should!", sounding excited. I then mention that I am free either this weekend or the next. She says "ohhh weekends..hmm I have so much going on with work and stuff, I also did visit the science center a few weeks ago so i might be able to just write about that, but ill ask the professor first...weekends are just so hard with my work schedule and stuff lately".
At the end of class she gets up and talks to the professor and then comes back to me. She says the professor says it's alright for her to do the assignment on her science center trip. I go on to say, "Well if you'd like to still come along with me, send me a text or something. I'm going to such and such museum". She says "Actually can you send me a text before you go and if I am free ill come with you??" I tell her that I'll send her a text before going to check if she'd like to come along...but she then says "but please don't wait up for me if I am not able to make it..I don't want to mess up your schedule". I end the conversation with "I tell you what, if you decide to come along, we can also go have lunch at my cousin's restaurant (popular place). Free food! haha". She responds with "ohhhh I like food! Thanks [my name]!!". I tell her once more that ill text her.
So my question is, has she already silently rejected me? Should i text her today and ask if she'd like to come along tomorrow? Or should I wait till next weekend? I don't want to pressure her into hanging out, since that's not my style. Another thing is, I did notice when looking over her shoulder that she had "Alexis birthday!!" written down in her planner for tomorrow (or maybe it was today if I didn't see correctly) (NO STALKER).
If I do text I was thinking of sending this:
Hi [name], just checking to see if you'd like to join me on my little field trip adventure tomorrow afternoon haha. Well let me know, if I don't go tomm, then I'll be going next weekend for sure.
Me and this girl have gotten to know each other in one of my college classes. She and I were group members on assignments and we sit next to each other. Got her phone number the first day of class too. We have sent texts to each other, but they are mostly initiated due to class stuff.
We have a field trip assignment that we have to individually go and do (the place we go is our decision) and then we have to do a little write up on it. Anyways, last class when she was looking at her syllabus I asked her what we had coming up as far as assignments due. We looked over the syllabus together and noticed the field trip thing which is due 2 weeks from now. I decide to say "hey, we should do this together". She responded with "Yea, we should!", sounding excited. I then mention that I am free either this weekend or the next. She says "ohhh weekends..hmm I have so much going on with work and stuff, I also did visit the science center a few weeks ago so i might be able to just write about that, but ill ask the professor first...weekends are just so hard with my work schedule and stuff lately".
At the end of class she gets up and talks to the professor and then comes back to me. She says the professor says it's alright for her to do the assignment on her science center trip. I go on to say, "Well if you'd like to still come along with me, send me a text or something. I'm going to such and such museum". She says "Actually can you send me a text before you go and if I am free ill come with you??" I tell her that I'll send her a text before going to check if she'd like to come along...but she then says "but please don't wait up for me if I am not able to make it..I don't want to mess up your schedule". I end the conversation with "I tell you what, if you decide to come along, we can also go have lunch at my cousin's restaurant (popular place). Free food! haha". She responds with "ohhhh I like food! Thanks [my name]!!". I tell her once more that ill text her.
So my question is, has she already silently rejected me? Should i text her today and ask if she'd like to come along tomorrow? Or should I wait till next weekend? I don't want to pressure her into hanging out, since that's not my style. Another thing is, I did notice when looking over her shoulder that she had "Alexis birthday!!" written down in her planner for tomorrow (or maybe it was today if I didn't see correctly) (NO STALKER).
If I do text I was thinking of sending this:
Hi [name], just checking to see if you'd like to join me on my little field trip adventure tomorrow afternoon haha. Well let me know, if I don't go tomm, then I'll be going next weekend for sure.
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