last night me and my gf had sex with a condom, and she had me jizz on her tits after. we wiped it off, and off my ****. About a half hour later, she tried to put my **** in her **** without a condom like 3 times, it never really got in more then 1/2 of the head really two times before we stopped trying to put it in. Should i be worried about old *** from the first time we did it?
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
should i be worrieD?
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
You're cutting it close bud. Jizz, or ***, can survive outside of the body for up to 30 minutes. But I doubt that it would have done anything. To be safe you should always wear a condom and never let your girl pressure you into doing otherwise! Be strong lol.
If you want to be really safe you could always get the morning afterpill, but that might be excessive in this case. Whatever you think is necessary.
If you want to be really safe you could always get the morning afterpill, but that might be excessive in this case. Whatever you think is necessary.
also she started her period a few hours before we ****ed. I didnt even notice and she didnt evne tell me so it must of been very light. So that basically said on a site i read it GREATLY decreases her chance of contraception let alone all the other factors, so i think we're ok.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
MacDiddy
Master Don Juan
Yes... you should be worried.... Its dumb!!!!
Unless of course you know she's comfortable with taking the morning after pill...
Unless of course you know she's comfortable with taking the morning after pill...
thanksOriginally posted by MacDiddy
Yes... you should be worried.... Its dumb!!!!
Unless of course you know she's comfortable with taking the morning after pill...