"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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bcollarmechanic

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alright so heres the sh1tty situation, this weekend me and a few buddies went out bar hoping for my bday which was a few weeks ago, after hitting a few bars and getting a good buzz on we decide to hit the local strip club, strip club was packed and they told us they were at maximum capacity and said to come back in an hour

instead my friends said they had a better surprise for me and took me to an Asian message place, my friends offered to pay for a "happy ending" and i thought screw it why not

so they pay, but without me knowing they made an extra surprise and paid for us to get the "full service"

the girl starts out by showering you, then giving you a message then rubbing your private, then she slipped a condom on and started sucking me off, i didnt think anything of it, but then she jumped on top and started riding me, i was so caught off guard and drunk that it probably took me a good 30secs - minute before i pushed her off, i didnt finish in her

now im scared i might of caught something like herpes or hpv, i dont have any symptoms but still scared as i know most men dont show symptoms for that stuff

my friends told me im being paranoid and not to worry because we wore condoms, but i know that condoms arent full proof at protecting from the stds mentioned above

im thinking about getting tested but i was never tested before manly because ive never been very sexually active, including the message place that was my fourth lay

think theres a good chance i caught something or am i just being paranoid?
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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ChemGod

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lol damn bro, herpies is for life. Did you notice any symptoms from her? I think the condom may have been enough, as long as her secretions did not get on any other part of your body, you didnt drink her breast milk, and didnt have any open cuts that the secretions could have entered, you should be good.
 

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I read that the chances of getting herpes from one random occasion of intercourse is like 3%. Now, if a condom is used and it does its job properly (e.g., it does not tear), then the chances are much less than that.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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way2smart

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bcollarmechanic said:
think theres a good chance i caught something or am i just being paranoid?
You are being extremely paranoid. All of us have herpes virus. I mean the one from which you get cold sores. Genital herpes is not very common, about 16% of population has it and it is only infectious in "active" phase, that's when you will see blisters around her vagina. If you didn't see any blisters, you are probably fine, because even if she had it, it would have been latent meaning not contagious. It's still possible to get infected in "inactive" stage however it's extremely rare.
 
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