"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Should I Be Worried About This Chick ?

ashman1

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was'up guys ,

i met this chick on facebook HB5 - HB7, through one of those common intrest groups so i clicked on her pic and friended her . a couple of days later she accepted the request. so i decided to introduce myself and say hello .

i got her name and where she was from , and we started messaging each other
she started asking me about my pics and said she would like to see more pics of me , and how good she thought i looked . well we started messaging each other so much she gave me her im address and her phone number .

so i invited her to this thing i was planning to go to in april , fully expecting her to say no , given how far away she lives . next thing i know she goes and makes RESERVATIONS ! ! ! and starts messaging on how she's so excited about meeting me , and how she cant wait for april to come around !

now im 28 and shes 31, divorced and has 2 kids . i live in pittsburgh and she lives in Cinncinati . and i've only been talking to her for about a week !
so im wondering should i be worried about this chick or did i just do a good job of laying down game ? what do y'all think ? hit me up . - ashman1:nervous:
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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vitor

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Why would you invite her to do something in 2 months? You are going to get bored chatting, emailing her, talking to her, it will be hard to keep this going for 2 months without hooking up or seeing each other..
 

cw92

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Yeah I agree, chances are she will flake. Its tough to keep a relationship up without ever have seen the person. I don't think there is anything wrong with her wanting to see you after a week, you probally won her over somehow. What's the worse that can happen if she comes?

I wouldn't count on it, especially since its in 2 months.
 

Rex Man

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Keep your guard up, but let her come. I wouldn't "worry" about her per se, but keep in mind by the way she's acting that she could get really needy, really fast.
 

Charm&Style

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#1 Mistake: Dating a single mom with TWO kids.

#2 Mistake: Making a date TWO months in advance

forget her, she will become a nuisannce and a huge headache for you. Facebook has way too many desperate girls on there so its not the end of the world. Lastly i hope your intentions is just to have sex with her and nothing more.
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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