"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Should I Be Worried About This Chick ?

ashman1

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was'up guys ,

i met this chick on facebook HB5 - HB7, through one of those common intrest groups so i clicked on her pic and friended her . a couple of days later she accepted the request. so i decided to introduce myself and say hello .

i got her name and where she was from , and we started messaging each other
she started asking me about my pics and said she would like to see more pics of me , and how good she thought i looked . well we started messaging each other so much she gave me her im address and her phone number .

so i invited her to this thing i was planning to go to in april , fully expecting her to say no , given how far away she lives . next thing i know she goes and makes RESERVATIONS ! ! ! and starts messaging on how she's so excited about meeting me , and how she cant wait for april to come around !

now im 28 and shes 31, divorced and has 2 kids . i live in pittsburgh and she lives in Cinncinati . and i've only been talking to her for about a week !
so im wondering should i be worried about this chick or did i just do a good job of laying down game ? what do y'all think ? hit me up . - ashman1:nervous:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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vitor

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Why would you invite her to do something in 2 months? You are going to get bored chatting, emailing her, talking to her, it will be hard to keep this going for 2 months without hooking up or seeing each other..
 

cw92

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Yeah I agree, chances are she will flake. Its tough to keep a relationship up without ever have seen the person. I don't think there is anything wrong with her wanting to see you after a week, you probally won her over somehow. What's the worse that can happen if she comes?

I wouldn't count on it, especially since its in 2 months.
 

Rex Man

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Keep your guard up, but let her come. I wouldn't "worry" about her per se, but keep in mind by the way she's acting that she could get really needy, really fast.
 

Charm&Style

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#1 Mistake: Dating a single mom with TWO kids.

#2 Mistake: Making a date TWO months in advance

forget her, she will become a nuisannce and a huge headache for you. Facebook has way too many desperate girls on there so its not the end of the world. Lastly i hope your intentions is just to have sex with her and nothing more.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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