"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Should I be scared?

The_Reaper

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I recently started a relationship with a Russian girl. Before we got together, I knew she was interested in me, and once during this time she mentioned in conversation (she's 23), "I am at the age when I am supposed to be getting married. My parents are always saying when will you get married. For us, at this age, it is expected". I made a joke about it, forget what I said. But it stuck in my mind.

Now, last night I did the wicked deed with her, and got this message from her earlier (this is part of the message):

"...you know that after what you have done
to me any decent man being on your place
would make a proposal immediately.
be online! see you!
[Reaper*] the Greatest!"

:eek:

Ohhh fucckkkk. Scares me a bit...
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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DarkLight

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lol... trippin!
Thats just her Russian culture/conditioning, pressuring through.

Your 20 Bro! 20!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Lay it down on this girl. She obviously has no problems sharing her view. You need to tell her whats up outside of Russia. And a 20yr. old doesn't propose. Unless he's a fckin smitten fool. Plenty of time for that, later in life... if thats what someone wants to do.

But seriously... she needs her perspective readjusted.
Do it tactfully, do it strong, do it clearly and cool... but let it be known.
AND JUST DO IT!
 
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