"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

Should I be concerned if...

SeymourCake

Banned
Joined
Apr 9, 2010
Messages
1,523
Reaction score
363
Should I be concerned if I'm always initiating a conversation with this particular woman?

She seems to vibe with the conversations with me. This girl on msn seems to over exaggerate letters like, "heeeeyyy", "lmaoooo", "how are youuu?" with emoticons.

The problem is that I'm always initiating the conversation. I always keep the conversation centered to her so I seem a bit mysterious, but then sometimes I feel like she doesn't ask me questions.

Well?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

ELMER_GANTRY

Don Juan
Joined
Apr 5, 2011
Messages
193
Reaction score
155
Location
West of the Mississippi
I would be if I were you. If you're always the one to talk to her first and she never does, then thats not a good sign.

if she does say hi or hey to you first sometimes then you know she has an interest.

If she doesn't ask questions about you then thats not good either.

I had girls say heeeeeeeeeyy because they were glad I was on.

you need her to get interested in YOU. You talked about her enough. Start telling some cool stuff about YOU. make some jokes make her laugh. don't be boring.

get her number and talk on the phone
 

SeymourCake

Banned
Joined
Apr 9, 2010
Messages
1,523
Reaction score
363
I've been sexually flirting with her heavily, and she was down with returning the favor. I made her laugh plenty of times too.

But I always figured talking about yourself is a bad thing when talking to women.
 

cablecow15

Master Don Juan
Joined
Oct 17, 2005
Messages
651
Reaction score
13
Age
36
Location
Tennessee
are you only talking about the internet? If so, that's not that bad , some people just aren't into talking online alot , so maybe she isn't starting it , because she doesn't wanna talk on the computer. Ive encounter a few women that are polar opposites in person ,and online some will talk all the time online , then shut down in person , and others will never talk online , and never shut up in person lol
 
Top