"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Should I be concerned if...

SeymourCake

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Should I be concerned if I'm always initiating a conversation with this particular woman?

She seems to vibe with the conversations with me. This girl on msn seems to over exaggerate letters like, "heeeeyyy", "lmaoooo", "how are youuu?" with emoticons.

The problem is that I'm always initiating the conversation. I always keep the conversation centered to her so I seem a bit mysterious, but then sometimes I feel like she doesn't ask me questions.

Well?
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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ELMER_GANTRY

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I would be if I were you. If you're always the one to talk to her first and she never does, then thats not a good sign.

if she does say hi or hey to you first sometimes then you know she has an interest.

If she doesn't ask questions about you then thats not good either.

I had girls say heeeeeeeeeyy because they were glad I was on.

you need her to get interested in YOU. You talked about her enough. Start telling some cool stuff about YOU. make some jokes make her laugh. don't be boring.

get her number and talk on the phone
 

SeymourCake

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I've been sexually flirting with her heavily, and she was down with returning the favor. I made her laugh plenty of times too.

But I always figured talking about yourself is a bad thing when talking to women.
 

cablecow15

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are you only talking about the internet? If so, that's not that bad , some people just aren't into talking online alot , so maybe she isn't starting it , because she doesn't wanna talk on the computer. Ive encounter a few women that are polar opposites in person ,and online some will talk all the time online , then shut down in person , and others will never talk online , and never shut up in person lol
 
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