"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Should I Avoid Porn?

jake-da-snake

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I'm sure this has been discussed here before but I can't find a thread on it.

I grew up having constant, unrestricted access to pornography and I have always taken it for granted. However, now that I'm reading more about male personal development, I'm wondering if it's something I should make an effort to quit.

I use porn at least once a day and I often turn to it just out of boredom. Should I stop?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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mrgoodstuff

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I'm sure this has been discussed here before but I can't find a thread on it.

I grew up having constant, unrestricted access to pornography and I have always taken it for granted. However, now that I'm reading more about male personal development, I'm wondering if it's something I should make an effort to quit.

I use porn at least once a day and I often turn to it just out of boredom. Should I stop?
If you dont have a sexlife porn is a bad idea. Talk to females.

If you have an adequate sexlife porn in moderation wont hurt.

The problem comes when you use porm instead of getting *****.
 
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