"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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Should I Avoid Porn?

jake-da-snake

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I'm sure this has been discussed here before but I can't find a thread on it.

I grew up having constant, unrestricted access to pornography and I have always taken it for granted. However, now that I'm reading more about male personal development, I'm wondering if it's something I should make an effort to quit.

I use porn at least once a day and I often turn to it just out of boredom. Should I stop?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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mrgoodstuff

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I'm sure this has been discussed here before but I can't find a thread on it.

I grew up having constant, unrestricted access to pornography and I have always taken it for granted. However, now that I'm reading more about male personal development, I'm wondering if it's something I should make an effort to quit.

I use porn at least once a day and I often turn to it just out of boredom. Should I stop?
If you dont have a sexlife porn is a bad idea. Talk to females.

If you have an adequate sexlife porn in moderation wont hurt.

The problem comes when you use porm instead of getting *****.
 
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