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Should I ask this girl out on another date or wait for her to initiate?

pr3167

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We’re both seniors in high school. I’ve known this girl for a while, and she’s started to demonstrate a lot of interest in me so we’ve hung out alone the past couple of weekends. Two weeks ago on Friday, I went to her house to watch a movie. Her parents were out, but her younger brother was in the basement so we couldn’t have sex, but we did end up making out for half an hour on her couch (this was the first time we kissed). I texted her the next day saying good luck for her dance recital that day, and she responded by saying thanks and to have a great day. We had a short text conversation on Sunday, and didn’t talk too much other than that.

Last Wednesday, she texts me saying that her and some friends were planning on buying tickets to a concert in May and she was wondering if I wanted to go with them. I told her I was down to go, and set up a date to go ice skating that Friday. So we ended up going. It was the first time I’ve ever ice-skated, so I was pretty bad at it, but she taught me some and it was a good opportunity for a lot of kino. After ice skating, we went to get ice cream, and ended up making out again in the back of my car before we went home.

I haven’t talked to or really seen her since then. We never really see each other in school, so our only communication comes from texting or hanging out on the weekends. Should I text her to set up a date for this weekend, or should I wait for her to initiate? Valentine's day is coming up and I'm going to have to ask her to prom eventually, and I'd want to at least have sex with her before doing anything romantic with her.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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RangerMIke

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Ask her out, don't wait for her.

Don't worry about Valentines day, your not in a relationship. If you think you have to get her something just get her a friendly card and write something funny in it.
 

SummerNight

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Lol, having sex is not romantic? :D Anyways, seems that she likes you so it's all good. It would be ok to initiate again. Don't worry about her not asking you out. Some girls never ask guys out and she did invite you to the concert so she id def seeing you in a long term picture.
 
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