"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Should I ask an older girl out?

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hey

School is starting soon and I went to a study seminar in the city today. Going for a 2nd day tomorrow.

Heres the story; When I arrived at registration, there were heaps of people qued up, I went straight behind a HB8.

As the line progressed I ended up in front of her and each time I took a step, she followed and I thought she was attracted to me.

So to test it out, when I walked into the hall, there were 9 tables. Each table could fit 6 ppl.

Half of the ppl were seated, the tables wernt all full. Anyway, I went straight to an empty table and she followed me and sat right across, so I started talking to her straight away.

Turns out shes in yr12, i'm year 11 this year. So she's 1 year older then me for those who cant do maths :p

Everything is getting along well, then the presenters randomly choose people to make a public presentation to the room about the person across from them. She did me first and thats where the problem began.

When it was my turn, I forgot her name cos I was trying to remember everyone elses! DOH :down:

She was really shocked, but I dont think upset.
Anyway, we didnt talk as much later on.

I've got the final session tomorrow and she'll be on my table again, so should I try and get her number during the lunch break?

Is it such a big deal when you forget a girls name? lol

Also, do you think she cares if I'm 1 year yonger?

I goto gym and am at 6' 160lb low bf% so I'm not really small.

gtg for a run now, so i'll post it now, hope I didnt forget anything :crackup:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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Its up to u man, i think u shud go for it man, if anythin goes wrong, jus say somethin like 'jus ncase u wna chill sometime an talk about how wer both gettin on wit whatever'
 
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Yeah absolutely, go for it. 1 Year really isn't a big deal at all, especially as you get older. When you see 16 year old guys hooking up with 13 year old girls I get the chills, but a year isn't a big deal at all.

It sounds like she's attracted to you more than enough to get a # close. Just remember "it's not big deal."

Goodluck man, keep us updated.
 
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